I had a thought:
why would I try and play God? if I were God, I would be alone, for everyone who has ever offended me or sinned against me, or just flat out annoyed me, would have been instantly condemned to hell. I say that, not because I want that for any of those around me, but because apart from the work of the Spirit, I have no grace in myself to breathe onto others. Without grace, there can be no forgiveness. Therefore I am grateful for the grace God provides for me to be gracious to others, and to forgive. (aren't you?) how can I not forgive stupid little things when I have already offended the Great God of the universe?